Comments on: No Longer Waiting http://unavitabella.com/2009/07/27/no-longer-waiting/ Living a beautiful life with chronic illness and mental health issues. Wed, 25 Jan 2012 16:16:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Taichidreams http://unavitabella.com/2009/07/27/no-longer-waiting/#comment-291 Fri, 31 Jul 2009 03:51:33 +0000 http://unavitabella.com/?p=325#comment-291 wow. I don’t know whether to be happy or sad for you. I’m sad that you’ve had to have these feelings; that someone has let you down. But happy that you’ve found peace and a sense of purpose. I posted this quote on Facebook: “To know that you were with the one who cared for you, and who understood every fiber of your being and who would not abandon you in even the most desperate of circumstances, that was the most precious relationship a person could have…” It was from a book I am reading (Brisingr). At first I thought of my husband, and then I thought of God. But mostly I thought of how everyone of us needs to know that we have that relationship with one other person.
While we can not wait nor change someone resistant to change, it may be good advice to take this quote and give it to that person. They need to know what you need, and need to understand that by leaving you alone in your illness they are abandoning you, even if its not physical abandonment. If its your husband you are talking about, it could be because this is something he can’t fix. So he doesn’t want to acknowledge it. Its frustrating. I don’t want to make presumptions, so I’ll stop there. You are right to take care of yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward.

]]> By: Teia Hassey http://unavitabella.com/2009/07/27/no-longer-waiting/#comment-288 Thu, 30 Jul 2009 20:12:15 +0000 http://unavitabella.com/?p=325#comment-288 Wow Amy, this is a great post. I am one of the many that was stuck in that rut. I have done away with all the “negativity” in my life. I am now fully moving forward with my life as well. I am finding so many supportive people.

I have also gone back to my passion of art and writing. This has helped me bore full speed ahead in life. I now look forward for the next day to come. We have so much going for us. Thank you for your inspiration.

Cheers!
Teia, AKA VinaMist

]]> By: Oleg http://unavitabella.com/2009/07/27/no-longer-waiting/#comment-269 Thu, 30 Jul 2009 00:02:37 +0000 http://unavitabella.com/?p=325#comment-269 Amazing insight, I can hardly take it in. You are moving forward and life is not passing you by. . .dance, dance and be free.

]]> By: Katy http://unavitabella.com/2009/07/27/no-longer-waiting/#comment-268 Tue, 28 Jul 2009 13:25:22 +0000 http://unavitabella.com/?p=325#comment-268 Great post, great lesson.

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